Controversial Neno Evangelism Centre pastor James Ng’ang’a has once again sparked debate online from one of his past sermons.
Speaking during a November 2024 church service, Ng’ang’a noted that many women remain single because they engage with men who offer sweet words but no real commitment.
He warned that such distractions prevent them from meeting someone genuinely interested in marriage.
Pastor James Ng’ang’a advised women to avoid entertaining multiple suitors while searching for a life partner. Photo: Courtesy.
According to Ng’ang’a, women mostly fall for compliments like “babe” or “sweetheart,” only to end up heartbroken when the relationship turns out to be nothing serious.
He moreover noted that women themselves are often the obstacles in their search for a suitable marriage partner.
“Kenya haijafanya wewe usiolewe, ni wewe uko na obstacles, ni wewe unatafunwa kama Big G unatemwa chini na hawa wakora,” Ng’ang’a said.
Ng’ang’a went on to advise women to demand respect and seriousness from potential partners, urging them to stop tolerating empty words.
“Ukiskia hizo babe zinajaa ndani yako mwambie sitaki babe, unamwambia niite ng’ombe sasa,” he added humorously.
Ng’ang’a’s relationship teachings have often drawn mixed reactions.
In yet another controversial sermon in November 2024, the pastor warned men about forming crushes on women they meet on social media.
He claimed such interactions could lead to spiritual entanglements, where a woman’s spirit might engage with a man’s spirit during sleep.
As expected the remarks sparked online debate, with many dismissing them as extreme while others humorously entertained the idea of supernatural encounters with their celebrity crushes.
