For the first time, Lilian Ng’ang’a has openly disclosed why she decided to leave former Machakos Governor Alfred Mutua for rapper Juliani, a decision that sparked endless discussions across the country.
Many Kenyans questioned how she transitioned from a life of luxury to being with a man they considered a ‘struggling artist.’
In a recent interview with Dr Ofweneke, Lilian spoke about what really led to the shift, what attracted her to both men, and how she found peace after a highly publicised breakup.
Lilian discloses that her self-discovery came after a friend introduced her to philosophy. Photo: Courtesy.
She acknowledged that the two men she has been with are very different. However, she revealed that her biggest weakness is being drawn to intelligence.
She went on to reveal that she met Juliani at a time when she was open to new experiences and perspectives.
However, she does not regret her time with Mutua, recognising that they had a meaningful relationship.
“I met Juliani at the right time, just like I met Alfred at the right time. We were supposed to be together for 10 years, build Machakos together, and do many great things. And we did. Then I met Juliani, and we now have a beautiful son together. It’s been really good.”
Talking of her relationship with Mutua, Lilian explained that her relationship with Mutua began to change when she turned 30.
The mother of one felt an inner shift, a need to find more meaning in her life and establish her own identity.
According to Lilian, she had everything she could ask for, yet something felt missing.
Lilian shared a great 10 years with Mutua before the two separated. Photo: Courtesy.
Her journey to self-discovery came after a friend introduced her to philosophy, which became a turning point in her journey.
Through this, Lilian discovered a deeper sense of purpose. She embraced Stoicism, a school of thought that teaches resilience, emotional control, and focusing only on what one can change.
